Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy
Helping Couples Rekindle Desire and Connection
Every relationship goes through seasons. The spark fades, desire shifts, and sometimes partners drift into feeling more like roommates than lovers. But intimacy and passion can be rebuilt.
I’m Rebecca Eudy, a certified sex therapist, couples coach, and author. I help individuals and couples strengthen emotional bonds, overcome desire differences, and rediscover pleasure and closeness in their relationships.
The spark doesn't have to die when kids arrive.
Parenting brings profound joy—and profound challenges to your relationship. If sex feels like just another item on your endless to-do list, you're not alone.
While my work supports all couples, my book focuses on the unique challenges of parenthood.
Parents in Love blends clinical wisdom, attachment theory, and real-life stories to help parents navigate intimacy and desire after kids. It’s packed with practical strategies for couples who want to keep passion alive in the middle of family life..
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I'm Rebecca
Sex & Couples Therapist, author, Wife, Mother, human
I’m not here to judge. During our work together, no topic is off-limits.
I specialize in helping parents who feel stuck in desire differences, relationship conflict, or the loneliness that can creep in after kids. My approach blends Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), attachment science, and practical tools to bring connection and passion back into long-term relationships.
Relationship Therapy for Real Life
My approach blends Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), attachment science, and sex therapy techniques to help couples break free from cycles of disconnection and move toward closeness.
Common Reasons Couples Seek Therapy
Desire differences or mismatched libidos
Feeling distant or stuck in recurring conflicts
Stress from work, parenting, or life transitions
Recovering from infidelity or betrayal
Wanting more intimacy, passion, and joy
Let’s face it
Parenting Is Hard! Desire Doesn’t Have to Be…
Juggling kids, work, and endless to-do lists can make sex feel like just another chore. Many couples face desire differences after kids, often leaving one partner feeling "broken" or at fault and the other sex starved and frustrated. But the truth is, desire is complex—and it’s about understanding and navigating these changes together, not placing blame. I help couples:
Understand the science of desire: Why it shifts & how to nurture it.
Bridge differences: Find balance without guilt or pressure.
Build lasting intimacy: Even in the chaos of family life.
It’s time to rewrite the narrative and build a relationship that feels vibrant, even in the busiest seasons of life.
SERVICES
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Relationship Therapy
Gain the tools to maintain a vibrant relationship while raising kids. Let’s face it—relationships are hard, parenting is HARD, and balancing both can feel impossible. Therapy can help you build the skills to reconnect as partners amidst the chaos of parenting. You don’t have to choose between being great parents and a great couple—you can have both.
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Couples Intensive
Does your relationship need a kick in the pants—or maybe just a really long hug?
With a couples intensive, you’ll get time for both. Sometimes weekly sessions aren’t enough to break old patterns. My couples intensives give you the space to focus deeply on your relationship. Whether you’re struggling with desire differences, parenting stress, or ongoing conflict, intensives provide practical, research-backed strategies to reignite passion and rebuild connection
