Couples Therapy in Boston & online

Relationships get messy. Most couples (and especially those with kids) face challenges at some point. Communication breakdowns, fading sexual connection, mismatched desire, and recurring conflicts can chip away at trust and connection, leaving both partners feeling unseen, frustrated, and alone

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When Connection Breaks Down

It’s like you somehow ended up on opposing teams. You don’t feel as close as you once did. Maybe you’re stuck in the same argument again and again, or you’ve stopped talking altogether. Perhaps romance and intimacy feel like they’ve disappeared. For some, deceit or infidelity has eroded trust, and moving forward feels impossible.

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Desire differences are inevitable—but disconnection doesn’t have to be

As a seasoned couple and sex therapist, I believe it’s important to call it as I see it: low desire is not a problem that needs fixing.

When we label the low-desire partner as the ‘problem,’ we’re missing the point. The issue isn’t one person—it’s the gap between desires.

Therapy helps you close that gap, reduce shame, and create intimacy that feels authentic, safe, and connected.

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You’re probably feeling pretty frustrated

I know many partners are nervous about starting couples therapy. You might worry about being blamed or doubt that counseling will really help. That’s normal. Here’s what you can expect:

  • I am on the side of the relationship — not one partner over the other.

  • I use evidence-based, attachment-focused methods like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help you rebuild trust and understanding.

  • I’ll give you practical communication tools to move out of negative cycles.

  • As an AASECT-certified sex therapist, I make space for even the most uncomfortable topics; nothing is off-limits.

Therapy Options & Intensives

Boston, MA & Virtual

The nitty Gritty

  • How Much:

    $350 per 50-minute session

    $2,300 per six hour intensive

  • How do we meet

    Virtual or in-person sessions. May include both couples and individual sessions

  • How Often:

    Sessions can be held weekly, biweekly, or as repeated or one-time intensives.

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Imagine what’s possible for Your Relationship

  • Experience open and honest communication without fear or judgment.

  • Rediscover intimacy and passion that feels safe, connected, and exciting.

  • Manage conflict in ways that bring you closer, not further apart.

  • Strengthen partnership and unity in everyday life.

  • Feel like a lovers again, not just co-parents or roommates.

FAQs

  • COUPLES COACHING

    This short term support focuses on actionable strategies to achieve agreed upon goals. It’s ideal if you’re looking to address a specific issue or want proactive approach to improving your relationship.

    COUPLES THERAPY & INTENSIVES

    Deeper work that focuses on shifting longer term patterns or issues that are wider ranging. It can be either short or long term.

    I am a licensed therapist (LMHC) in the state of Massachusetts. Couples who want to work with me in this capacity must either be MA residents or physically present in MA during treatment.

  • Yes! There are a few options if you don’t live in MA

    Coaching: Available worldwide! I works with couples globally through video calls and messaging to help you meet your relationship goals, no matter where you're located. This short term solution focused work is NOT therapy

    Therapy & Couples Intensives: Available for Massachusetts residents and out-of-state clients who can be physically present in Massachusetts during sessions.

    Many couples travel to the Boston area specifically to work with me for intensive therapy.

    Not sure which option is right for you? Get in touch to discuss your needs and find the best fit!

  • I get it, an intensive seems like a big investment…

    However, your relationship is worth the effort! Relationships can be challenging, and even the strongest ones require work. Couples intensives offer a way to make significant progress in a shorter amount of time, typically consisting of 5-6 hours of focused work per day, with breaks to ensure productivity. This format allows couples to dive deep into issues and achieve long-lasting and positive changes in their relationship.

    While some couples may find that one intensive is sufficient for their needs, others may choose to schedule multiple days or follow up with ongoing sessions or monthly check-ins. Additionally, intensives can be customized to meet the unique needs and goals of each couple. For couples who are committed to improving their relationship, it’s a great way to create long-lasting, positive changes and represents a significant savings in both time and money over traditional weekly sessions.

  • Schedule a free consultation and we will figure it out together! I never work with clients I don’t think would be a good fit.

  • No! Many couples I work with do find that emotional disconnection often comes with sexual disconnect, but not all. I work to help you get securely connected to each other, regardless of what that means to you.

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