Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy

Find Your spark, reignite desire.

Sex & Relationship Therapist & Author of Parents In Love: A Guide to Great Sex After Kids

The spark doesn't have to die when kids arrive.

Parenting brings profound joy—and profound challenges to your relationship. If sex feels like just another item on your endless to-do list, you're not alone.

Stop feeling like roommates. Start feeling like lovers again.

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Let’s face it,

Parenting Is Hard! Desire Doesn’t Have to Be…

Juggling kids, work, and endless to-do lists can make sex feel like just another chore. Many couples face desire differences after kids, often leaving one partner feeling "broken" or at fault and the other sex starved and frustrated. But the truth is, desire is complex—and it’s about understanding and navigating these changes together, not placing blame. I help couples:

  • Understand the science of desire: Why it shifts & how to nurture it.

  • Bridge differences: Find balance without guilt or pressure.

  • Build lasting intimacy: Even in the chaos of family life.

It’s time to rewrite the narrative and build a relationship that feels vibrant, even in the busiest seasons of life.

Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy, couples and sex therapist in Boston, wearing a white button-up shirt, sitting on a couch with a gray pillow, holding a white mug with coffee, in a cozy indoor setting.

I'm Rebecca

Sex & Couples Therapist, author, coach, Wife, Mother, human

SERVICES

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    Relationship Therapy

    Gain the tools to maintain a vibrant relationship while raising kids. Let’s face it—relationships are hard, parenting is HARD, and balancing both can feel impossible. Therapy can help you build the skills to reconnect as partners amidst the chaos of parenting. You don’t have to choose between being great parents and a great couple—you can have both.

  • Therapy

    Couples Intensive

    Does your relationship need a kick in the pants—or maybe just a really long hug?
    With a couples intensive, you’ll get time for both. Unlike weekly sessions that often spend a third of the time just catching up, intensives let you dive right in. The focused, extended format helps couples work through issues faster and more deeply, creating lasting progress in less time.

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Are you ready to take charge of your own desire?